Who is closest to you? Someone whose conversations or speech carries the grace and seasoning you love. I am drawn to people who speak my language of Kingdom. Our conversations are similar. If you want relationship with certain people you cannot force it, it happens naturally through the Law of conversation.
When you find who speaks your language you have found your next companion.
How did Jonathan and David’s relationship began? It was after Jonathan heard David’s conversation with his father.
When he [David] had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.” 1 Samuel 18:1
So, fill your conversation with grace and seasoned with Salt. Because certain divine connection will not happen until they hear you talk!